24: The Year of Letting Go

Yesterday, I turned 24! While that may not generally be a significant age/milestone, it has turned out to be for me and here is why.

Oftentimes, I find myself worrying about my youth. To others, 24 is not old and I by no means see it as old either, but I am constantly asking myself, “Where did the time go?” I graduated from high school six years ago and when I reflect on college just three years ago, I immediately think of all the time I spent studying, napping, and doing laundry. But what about the fun times? I would never downplay the priceless memories of living with seven other girls, joining my dance team, going abroad, and meeting people who will be my friends for the rest of my life; however, when all of those moments were taking place, I can’t help but feel like I wasn’t totally present. I was always one foot in, one foot out, constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop or prematurely mourning a good time because I didn’t want it to end. Of course we all want to hold on to great moments and if we could, we’d live them over and over, but I’m just talking about not allowing myself to be free and leave my worries behind.
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I feel like I lost a lot of my time during my late teens and early 20’s to fear, inhibition, and stress. If I had to explain why, you would be reading my autobiography, but I hate that I allowed that to happen. What I want from turning 24–and moving forward in the rest of my life–is to truly start letting go. I think I have actually written previously on this blog about “letting go,” but I am ready for the weight that I put on myself to be lifted off my shoulders. I spend so much time in my head and focus greatly on self-preservation and trying to build a better character. While there are great things about that, I am also hurting myself by not being physically present in everyday life. I need to just live my life in the way that makes me happiest. That includes reminding myself that nothing (and no one) is perfect and that I should not benchmark any part of my life against another person. It is time to stop punishing myself for not being someone else, and to start accepting myself for who I am.
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For me, the year of 24 is more than just being more outgoing and saying “yes” to things more often–it is about quieting that negative, doubting voice. It is about breaking down my own barriers and throwing away the hypothetical guide to life. What I expect, no, set for this year and beyond is more laughter, more openness to experience and others, and finally living with eyes and heart wide open. 24 is The Year of Letting Go.

xx, AE

7 thoughts on “24: The Year of Letting Go

  1. I truly enjoyed this piece it was informative on your intentions on your life going forward since turning 24 years old. Letting go yes I say throw away the whole negative and doubting voice and you will conquer all things life throws your way.

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    1. Thank you so much, Judy!! It has had some amazing effects and it hasn’t even been a week yet, but I am trying to focus on the long term because that’s where the test is. Otherwise, life can bring you down so easily

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  2. What a great insight on YOUR life and what YOU want it to be. Enjoy the journey, you’re a smart girl and know when to say NO and it’s ok. You have evolved into this amazing, well spoken, well traveled and well educated young woman and you’re a cutie too, all wrapped up in 1!!! Do you!!!

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    1. Oh my goodness, this is SO sweet, I could cry. I wish I knew who you were!! Regardless, I greatly appreciate all your positive words and thank you so much again. ❤

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