I know this year has been so inconsistent in terms of my writing. I have had a lot of ups and downs and have mostly lost my inspiration, creativity, and zest for blogging. I will write more about that in an upcoming post, but I will still apologize to the few readers I have out there for being MIA. I have had two trips since my last travel post in Chicago, but I used both trips to disconnect and just be somewhere other than home while spending quality time with my closest friends. From my last post, you could probably feel that my mood has been out of whack for a little while now. Still, I am trying to be proactive about working on that by tackling my first and most important obstacle: time.
In my short 23 years of life, I haven’t fully grasped that feeling of ‘not having enough time.’ Sure, there have been many moments that I wished could last forever or wishing I had an extra day before an event, a test, etc., but I have always been someone who is on top of things. I never adopted procrastination in any of my education levels and never desired feeling that pressure–or rush, for some–of watching the time run out and seeing if I could accomplish the bare minimum. It is honestly something I am proud of. On the opposite end of the spectrum, however, I constantly have issues with time in terms of centering in on the past and the future. Continue reading “Reclaiming My Time”
A few weeks ago, I had a breakdown. I passed my seven-month mark of unemployment and I could no longer focus on the idea that change was around the corner. While I am completely aware that millions of people are in my current situation, knowing this did not bring me a sense of peace or comfort. I felt that I had accomplished so much through my college career that I could not understand why, at the very least, I was not getting interviews. I started to rethink and regret everything.
I gave in to the belief that my major was useless. I started to overanalyze job descriptions, convincing myself I did not have a skill set beyond knowing “how to talk.” I especially beat myself up for participating in the internship program this summer in London at the expense of a potential full-time job opportunity with a company I love. But something changed–I had an epiphany. Continue reading “The Epiphany”
We are officially halfway through January and I can’t help but wonder how many of us have gotten off track for our New Year’s Resolutions.
I know I have which has inspired me to write a three-step “cheat sheet,” if you will, for ways to achieve your new-year-goals. I think we can agree that the new year symbolizes a fresh start so naturally, we dive in head-first to try something new, whether it be hitting the gym more or making specific career moves. It is easy the first couple of days when everyone is recharged after the holidays, but once we fall back into routine, everything falls back into routine. So how do we fight this?
Continue reading “3 Steps in the Right Direction”
As the year [finally] comes to a close this weekend, I thought I’d share 16 lessons I learned from 2016:
- Adversity comes in many forms.
- You can’t please everyone, so follow your own path.
- Success is subjective, but not relative.
- Support those who support you.
- Give without expecting to receive.
- Communication is still key even in confrontation.
- Show your friends and family you appreciate them.
- When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
- Embrace vulnerability.
- Continue to be kind, but don’t let others take advantage of your kindness.
- Life hardly goes according to plan and that’s okay.
- Letting go, in every way, is healthy and necessary.
- Relationships change because people change, but change is good.
- Personal growth is a cycle, so soak in the sunshine and weather the storms.
- Say yes more.
- The longest relationship you’ll ever be in is with yourself–cater to it.
I hope everyone had a happy holiday and please be safe this New Year’s Eve.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!